While I primarily began this site to talk about my journeys with chronic illness and my adventures in living vividly, I find that I’m also writing on topics related to emotional intelligence and navigating relationships. So if you’re particularly interested in my ideas about how to navigate the emotional landscape, you can find my ‘Emotional Toolkit’ posts collected here:
Touchstones
The Price of Connection
Doing My Best
Sometimes It’s Hard to Have Fun
Life’s Already Tough Enough
All the Feels
Strength Building Exercises
Where the Fault Lies
Challenger
Gratitude and Grace
Discipline, Compassion, Shame, and Change
In Shadow
If, on the other hand, you’re more interested in my experiences with polyamory, here are some essays about that part of my life:
Non-Monogamy and Marriage
Why Choose Polyamory?
Hierarchy and Egalitarianism
Commitment
Identity Introspection: Queer and Polyam
Orienting Polyam
Self-Care and Polyamory
Re-Imagining Relationship Hierarchy
Another topic that comes up a lot in my life these days is neurodivergence.
Living Vividly 